tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2552712473039374560.post3270997707262938842..comments2023-10-15T08:44:37.222-04:00Comments on Ohhh Lulu...: Aftermathbetterdressedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09737306444524901411noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2552712473039374560.post-1090951194981941322013-12-11T06:13:45.470-05:002013-12-11T06:13:45.470-05:00Hang in there. Hope you get a road trip in, or a c...Hang in there. Hope you get a road trip in, or a change of scene.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2552712473039374560.post-54272229220348331322013-12-08T02:33:36.724-05:002013-12-08T02:33:36.724-05:00Lately I was reading from book Wings of power from...Lately I was reading from book Wings of power from Margrit Segesman, she wrote " It is quite unimportant what people say or do to us, as not a hair can be touched on our head without the will of God. It is our reaction which counts. All pains and all limitations have an educational purpose. It somehow gave me great relief from my own pain as I accepted that I have my free will and rest is in Gods hands.<br />With love <br />JarmilaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2552712473039374560.post-10988213083641010292013-12-06T10:02:38.747-05:002013-12-06T10:02:38.747-05:00Sarah, I am so sorry you are still feeling loss. ...Sarah, I am so sorry you are still feeling loss. It takes a little time. But it is never the same. But it will get better.Alaskapsychhttp://alaskapsych.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2552712473039374560.post-80683096885555919472013-12-03T13:55:11.528-05:002013-12-03T13:55:11.528-05:00I have been one of your readers for a while but I ...I have been one of your readers for a while but I don't post comments. However, I felt drawn to this post. I, too, had difficulty getting pregnant and carrying to full term. I've had four miscarriages. Most family members and friends did not say anything, fearing (I'm guessing) they would say the wrong thing. Even though the last one was 30 years ago, at odd moments, the pain and sorrow returns. Not as painful, just the memory. Your loss is still fresh. Breathe. It's ok to grieve, feel awkward, have a sad day, etc. I adopted my two (sibling) daughters in my late 30's. They've kept me busy and helped to fill the loneliness and ache I felt in my heart--bittersweet memories remain. It takes time to heal, putting one foot in front of the other. Embrace your journey with peace and affirmation--know that you are not alone. Robinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11688809657787883372noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2552712473039374560.post-71276554423865646222013-12-03T11:58:54.749-05:002013-12-03T11:58:54.749-05:00Hi Sarah. Glad you are expressing these feelings, ...Hi Sarah. Glad you are expressing these feelings, and glad you are taking care of yourself. A.J.A.https://www.blogger.com/profile/05989531542525210531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2552712473039374560.post-1806596715037361502013-12-03T10:46:04.613-05:002013-12-03T10:46:04.613-05:00Awww, man. I'm so sorry. I can't even im...Awww, man. I'm so sorry. I can't even imagine how hard this must be. I guess it doesn't help to know this, but if anyone is being weird or awkward towards you, I'm sure it's because they are trying to be really careful and considerate of your feelings and maybe they don't quite know how to handle the situation. I'm really glad that you'll be able to spend time with close family over the holidays-- it must be a relief to be able to just be yourself and not feel like you have to make small talk with people you don't know as well. I hope you and Dan and Oliver are able to spend lots of good time together as the holidays approach and you're able to find some joy in that. Thinking of you!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com